- He/she starts telling lies for no reason.
- He/she starts coming home at unusual times and refuses to give any rational explanation.
- He/she suddenly starts exercising or going to the gym.
- He/she buys a whole new wardrobe of fancy and flashy clothes.
- He/she buys a new perfume/cologne.
- He/she starts a new diet.
- He/she suddenly changes his/her driving pattern.
- He/she buys new hot/sexy underwear.
- He/she starts spending more money without giving any explanation.

Another site gives you 46 ways to tell if your partner is cheating. Take a look at this list and see if your husband or wife is cheating!

1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you’ve had a vasectomy.

2) Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you. (They either know about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible wife or girlfriend you are.)

3) Your cheating husband or wife stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.

4) Sets up a new e-mail account and doesn’t tell you about it.

5) He leaves the house in the morning smelling like Irish Spring and returns in the evening smelling like Safeguard.

6) She joins the gym and begins a rigorous workout program.

7) She buys a cell phone and doesn’t let you know.

He sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to his office.

9) The cheating husband carries condoms, and you are on the pill.

10) Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.

11) Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.

12) He becomes “accusatory,” asking if you are being true to him, usually out of guilt.

13) Raises hypothetical questions such as, “Do you think it’s possible to love more than one person at a time?”

14) He buys himself new underwear.

15) He insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.

16) The cheating wife stops wearing her wedding ring.

17) Has a sudden desire to be helpful with the laundry.

18) Has unexplained scratches or bruises on his or her neck or back.

19) Suddenly wants to try new love techniques.

20) He/she fairly suddenly stops having sex with you.

21) He/she suddenly wants more sex, more often.

22) Supposedly works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.

23) Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.

24) You find out by accident he or she took vacation day or personal time off from work – but supposedly worked on those days.

25) Shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.

26) Spouse’s co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.

27) Has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.

28) Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you have gone to bed.

29) He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress’s house and had to eat the dinner you prepared when he got home.

30) Your spouse is away from home, either nights or on trips, more than previously.

31) His/her clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave. You see lipstick on your husband’s shirt.

32) The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off.

33) You find items of intimate apparel or other small gift-type items that you did not give your spouse.

34) Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is “touchy” and easily moved to anger.

35) You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.

36) He/she loses attention in the activities in the home.

37) Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.

38) He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.

39) She uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.

40) She has a “glow” about her.

41) Atypical erratic behavior.

42) He sneaks out of the house.

43) She sleeps with her purse by the bed

44) She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.

45) He tells you can get hold of him at a different telephone number.

46) The telltale signs of a cheating spouse? Having to ask that question in the first place.

]]> http://www.affairtips.com/cheating-thinking-of-having-an-affair-these-are-things-to-avoid/46/feed 3 http://www.affairtips.com/bored-cheating-housewife-affair-tips/45 http://www.affairtips.com/bored-cheating-housewife-affair-tips/45#comments Sat, 15 Mar 2008 16:45:43 +0000 Affair Tips http://www.affairtips.com/bored-cheating-housewife-affair-tips/45 Are you a bored cheating housewife and don’t want to get caught cheating? Maybe you are bored and lonely and are thinking about having an affair? Seems like there are a quite a few of you looking for ways to prevent yourselves from getting caught cheating. We’ve gotten twenty seven emails in the last forty five days from housewives that are cheating or about to..

We figure that there must be website out there and they must be teaching people how to cheat. We did some searches and found a bunch of sites that offer tips for having an affair. Crazy huh?  Here is some of the affair tips we found for bored-cheating-housewives.

For a bored, cheating housewife, there are some different things she’ll need to do in order to prevent her from getting caught having an affair. Here’s a list (in no particular order) of things to do and to remember if you are a housewife looking to have an affair. Think your wife is cheating? Look at the list for tips on how she is having her affair and how to catch her in the act!

• Online personal ads are your best bet for finding a lover. Trying to pick someone up at a bar is just too risky and since you are a housewife, how are you going to convince your husband to let you get dressed up and hit the clubs at night? We recommend using the Ashley Madison Agency or Adult Friend Finder. We’ve done a quick online dating personals review here. Using online personal ads for cheating is cheaper than bars, safer and way more fun to be able to window shop for your secret lover.
• If you are buying anything online or in person related to your affairs, sign up for a new Mastercard and use a fake address or send mail to a P.O. Box.Try to use cash for hotels and the new credit cards for online personals so that no paper trail leads back to you. Even better, get your lover to pay for the hotel so there is no chance your name will be on anything relating to it. All men will happily pay for a hotel to have an affair in. If they don’t, then they are serious about keeping your affair secret.
• Since you are a housewife, you’ll probably be at home most days when you check your online personal ad messages. This is where WinClear will assist you in keeping your affair secret. It enables you to hide your surfing habits and it will cover your tracks when you go to your online personal ad sites.
• Don’t tell your girlfriends. Not any of them, not even your BFF.
• Start doing something during the day that requires you to leave the house for a couple of hours and where you can’t answer your cellphone. Join a scrap-booking club. Join a gym. Volunteer at animal shelter. This will form the basis of your affair alibi.
• If you aren’t that creative or have trouble lying, use the Alibi Network to help create a foolproof affair alibi. This service will help you conceal your affair and take the stress out of trying to keep your stories straight.
• Create a brand new Hotmail address, one that you’ve never had before and that your husband doesn’t know about. Make sure to not have the following turned on “Remember me on this computer”. This will enable others to see your new email address, and will raise suspicions.
• Insist on your lover wearing a condom. Although sex without feels much better, you bringing home a STD will be the end of your marriage and could even kill you or your husband if you contract AIDS or something similar. Affairs are fun, but you don’t want to give yourself a death sentence. Use condoms!
• Most of all, try to not change anything at home, other than your new alibi activity(gym, scrap-booking etc). Keep on doing what you are doing, except know that now you’ll be a whole lot happier inside!

If you are a bored cheating housewife that got caught and want to share your story, send us an email.

If you are a married man who thinks his wife is cheating and need some tips to catch her, send us an email.

]]> http://www.affairtips.com/bored-cheating-housewife-affair-tips/45/feed 1 http://www.affairtips.com/valentines-day-cheating/43 http://www.affairtips.com/valentines-day-cheating/43#comments Fri, 08 Feb 2008 20:30:52 +0000 Affair Tips http://www.affairtips.com/valentines-day-cheating/43 On our ongoing quest to find all the affair tips that cheating are being given online, we found this on that gives advice on how to have an affair on Valentine`s Day. Crazy!

Valentine’s Day

What plans do you have? None? Why not?

-Did he lose his romance years ago? The only time he’s remotely romantic is after six highballs at the staff Christmas Party?

-Is she not feeling well as usual? Her headache, period, back ache acting up again?

Bombarded by ads featuring loving couples in various embraces, Valentine’s Day is very difficult for people in relationships that have no love, no lust, no passion. You can’t turn on the TV right now without seeing a loving couple sharing a tender moment. There is no way you can surf the ‘Net for ten minutes without seeing a banner featuring a hot woman or man talking about love and lust on Valentine’s Day. While you are trying to get through your life, you know, going to work, picking up the kids from school, paying those bills, getting the groceries and getting the car fixed, you can’t help but feel the lack of sexual energy and passion in your sex lives. Being in a lust-less marriage or relationship this time of year is terrible and married couples need to be on-guard for Valentines Day affairs.

Below is 5 steps that they might take to have an affair. if see any of these things in your partner, it’s time to start asking serious questions!

5 steps to have an affair on Valentine’s Day

1. You don’t want to get caught cheating on Valentine’s Day! Follow simple rules like not meeting in places where you’d usually hang out, going out of the city to a hotel, making sure to use protection when you are cheating, creating a good alibi, etc
2. Sign up to The Ashley Madison Agency or Adult Friend Finder. Create a profile, fill it with descriptions of what you are missing and what you need.  Select a handful of potential dates that you might be interested in, then take your conversations to the next level. After a few messages back and forth, you should have a good idea of which lover you’d like to have a date with.
3. Start building your alibi today. Start talking about a new project at work, new date night with the girls, something that you’d normally do. If there are plans for Valentine’s Day already, don’t change them, just work your date with your lover around you usual schedule and not the other way around.
4. If Valentine’s Day is usually forgotten, don’t bring it up. Act no differently around your sexually non-responsive partner.
5. Make sure to tell no one about your secret Valentine’s Day date, not even your closest friend!.

Once they decide to follow the affair advice in the numerous sites on the Internet, you’ll now be well equipped to catch them cheating.

]]> http://www.affairtips.com/valentines-day-cheating/43/feed 1 http://www.affairtips.com/having-an-affair-with-a-married-woman/16 http://www.affairtips.com/having-an-affair-with-a-married-woman/16#comments Sun, 12 Aug 2007 22:20:19 +0000 Affair Tips http://www.affairtips.com/having-an-affair-with-a-married-woman/ Having an affair with a married woman is much easier than most men think. The hardest part of having an affair with a married woman, is finding a married woman that wants to have an affair! Thanks to numerous online personal ad sites, it is easier than ever to find a married woman to have an affair with. Check out the Ashley Madison Agency, or Adult Friend Finder. (read our online personal ad site review). All three feature ads from attached women looking to have an affair. 

Married women aren`t like other women in that they have different needs. Having a sexual encounter with a married woman can be very satisfying but in order to get in bed with a married women, you have to change your mindset. A married women has a lot to lose and is usually very nervous about cheating. You`ll need to constantly reassure her, and make sure she knows that discresion is your top priority. You`ll need to handle all the details, such as booking for and paying for a hotel room, buying the condoms and making sure that she has her affair alibi down. Talk with her about these things, so she knows you are serious about keeping your affair secret.

Sure there are thousands of married women that want to have an affair. With patience and plenty of consideration for her feelings, you`ll find that finding a married woman to have an affair with is much easier than you think, once you have the tools to find them!

Good luck and be safe!

A write up of Ashley Madison, from a woman in San Antonio who swears by it, was an interested read and makes perfect sense. Why not control things by having a profile and having men come to you? Safer and easier then going out alone. You can’t take a girlfriend out with you to find someone to be your lover because one of the biggest rules when having an affair is,”DON’T tell your girlfriends!” Post your ad and sit back, picking and choosing your treats as they appear. Really like someone?Go get him and get some!

Read that woman’s article or join the Ashley Madison Agency for FREE by clicking here right now if you are looking to have an affair. It’s well worth it.