We’ve often talked about how destructive the Ashley Madison Agency is for married men and women. Now they are going to refund your money if you don’t find someone to have an affair with? How desperate!

We went over to the Ashley Madison site and found a letter from the President of Ashley Madison, Noel Biderman…Here it is…

We think it’s a pretty good idea to offer this kind of guarantee, in that as more people use the service, the easier it will be to catch someone cheating. Who wouldn’t sign up to try something if they know they’ll be getting their money back if it doesn’t work out? Go sign up and catch them cheating!!

If you think your husband or wife is having an affair and don’t know where to look,  sign up to the Ashley Madison Agency.

Think your husband or wife are trying to book a hotel room for an affair? Here are some tips they will try to follow so they don’t get caught. Keep an eye out for these behaviors and catch them cheating!

1. Find a hotel at least 50kms from your place of work in order to minimize the chances of you being seen by someone you know. Even better, have an affair while on business to further minimize the chances of getting caught.
2. Use an alias to book the room and use a fake mailing address if they need an address.
3. Pay cash and keep no receipts ever. If you need to use a credit card, pick a hotel that you’ve used before or one that has a convention going on that you mightbe attending.
4. Pick your secret lover carefully. If you use Ashley Madison, most of the lovers there know the score and won’t rat you out. Adult Friend Finder has more selection by discretion may be an issue. Craigslist works well, but there are a lot of professional girls. They are pricey, but at least there is guaranteed No Strings Attached!
5. Make sure to use protection and make sure to use odorless condoms.
6. Scope out the hotel first and see if there is more than one way to enter the building. When you arrange to meet your lover there, make sure to arrive at different times and through different entrances. Same as when you leave. Don’t leave together and don’t leave out the same door.
7. Shower well after you have sex and either drop your clothes at the dry-cleaning, or laundrymat or throw them out. Make sure to check your pockets to make sure there is nothing incriminating inside.
8. Do NOT tell anyone that you are cheating. Create a story as to why you are out and stick to it.
9. Don’t give your secret lover any contact information, other than a secret email address.
10. Be someone other than yourself. Create a new persona, occupation etc for your secret lover. The less real details you reveal, the better you will be!

Sure there are some other tips we haven’t thought of just yet, but these tips will hopefully help you narrow down whether or not your partner is cheating!

If you are asking this question, you are probably suspicious of your husband or wife cheating.

Having an affair is a lot easier than you think. There is SO much information on the ‘Net for people wondering how to have an affair that no longer do you have to ask someone and risk getting caught cheating. We’ve created this site specifically to give people affair tips and with all the information on this site alone, you can now catch your husband or wife cheating!

Here’s some of the more popular posts and ones that will help you catch them having an affair.

• So they want to have an affair. Wondering where they will find a secret lover? The two most popular online personals for finding a secret love affair are Ashley Madison Agency and Adult Friend Finder. We wrote a post talking about the two online dating personals that work
• There is a lot of information on how to not get caught cheating, but what are the ways they will get caught? Cheating? Having an affair? Here are ways you CAN get caught, is a post that covers the different ways they might get caught cheating
• Think they are cheating online? Having an Internet affair? Make sure to check this post on 10 tips for online cheating.

There should be enough information on those links to answer their, “How to have an affair” questions. If not, send us an email with your affair and cheating questions and we’ll do our best to answer them.

Enter the Ashley Madison Agency. She signs up, creates a profile and then sits back as man after man sends her messages telling her how beautiful she is. After 3 years of being married, she is finally being appreciated! She responds to a few of the messages and a short time later, she’s having phone sex with these men.

Ashley Madison does that to married women. They are often bored and neglected at home and when they sign up to Ashley Madison, they suddenly have the attention of hundreds if not thousands of men. Now YOU know where these wives are going so go to Ashley Madison yourself and catch them cheating!

This woman claims that while she’s only having phone sex with these men right now, she figures it won’t be too long before a man seduces her and then she’ll be seeking a sexual encounter. Ashley Madison again shows why it is the #1 place to destroy marriages and affect families.

To read the rest of her story, click here.

To sign up for free to the Ashley Madison Agency to catch them cheating, click here.

Check out the advice given to cheaters to help them hide their affairs. Take note and see if your husband or wife is doing anything like this so you can see if they are having an affair or not!

• Not covering your tracks well enough.
You need to cover your tracks when cheating. From having an airtight affair alibi to making sure to use WinClear if you are using your home pc, not hiding your affair properly will get you caught cheating. Take care to look in the following areas for evidence of your affairs, coat and pants pockets, purses, briefcases or vehicles. Be sure to remove obvious items that belong to a woman/man or are from unfamiliar hotels, restaurants or night clubs. Check the passenger car seat—did you adjust the seat for your lover? Look for items left behind in the car such as: lipstick, lipstick or make-up marked tissue, hair pins, paper with unfamiliar information, pen, glasses or other items that don’t belong to either you or your significant other.
• Going to your secret lover’s home.
Never go to your lover’s home (unless they are completely single and free from the ties of marriage and/or a serious relationship.) If they get caught by their significant other, chances are your spouse will also find out. If you plan on travelling to meet your lover, you’ll want to check the mileage on the odometer and make sure your alibi covers the distance you had to travel.
• Calling your new companion from your home phone and/or your cell phone.
Since you don’t want your lover’s number to appear on your cell phone history or call display or phone records, make all calls to your lover from work or payphones. It’s a hassle but will prevent you from getting caught cheating. Getting a new or another cell phone is also good, but make sure to hide it well and keep the ringer(including vibrate) off. Don’t hide this secret cell phone in obvious places like your purse, briefcase, pocket, car trunk, car compartments, under the seat, or behind the visor. Hide it at work, in the garage, in the air vents, somewhere where it won’t be found.
• Giving your new friend your home phone number or real name.
Always use an alias for your affairs. When responding to personal ads or creating online dating ads, make sure to create a whole new identity that mirrors you, except the details are changed enough to not identify you. Your occupation, your name, your neighbourhood all need to be different that actual so you don’t get caught.
• Not keeping a low profile when you are out with your lover.
You would be surprised how many people know you and/or your spouse, who unbeknownst to you may see you lavishing inappropriate attention on your new companion in public. If you are going to have an overnight or hotel encounter, drive at least 75 miles away from your residence. Driving such a distance might arouse suspicion, so make sure you already have a valid reason to be staying overnight or driving so far.
• Secret dating without a schedule.
Try to set up a regular schedule of ‘dates’ with your lover. If your spouse expects you to be out of town for business overnight every Wednesday, he/she will not suspect anything when you maintain this schedule and include your new friend in your overnight stays. Make sure you don’t change the way you go out on your dates. Don’t carry new clothes. Don’t stop complaining about having to go out again. Don’t start getting nervous or excited before you go. Make sure you don’t bring anything new home from your date.
• You become confident in your ability to deceive your spouse
The longer your affair lasts, the more likely you will get comfortable and forget that your affair is supposed to be “secret love affair”. Make sure to keep following the steps needed to hide your cheating.
• You tell your friend(s) about your affair.
Make sure you don’t tell a soul about your affair, including your best friend(s). All it takes is for one of them to tell someone else and before long, you’ll be confronted. Also, make sure nothing changes about your behaviour at work or at home.
• Making promises to your lover.
Make sure you don’t make promises you can’t keep to your lover. Don’t tell your secret lover that you are going to leave your husband or wife for them, unless you really are. Most affairs don’t result in new marriages/long term relationships with the lover, but that doesn’t stop people from making promises. False promises will quickly lead to bitterness and the desire for your secret lover to wreck your marriage, just so they can have you to themselves.
Here are some other behaviors that a cheating husband or wife will exhibit. Make sure none of these describes you!
-They seem less comfortable around you and is “touchy” and angers easily.

-They lose attention to the activities in the home.

-Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.

-They have a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.

-They have a “glow.”

-Atypical behavior.

-They are frequently gone longer than stated.

-They are more difficult to reach by phone.
People have affairs and cheat on their husbands and wives for many reasons. If you are married and want to have an affair, talk to your partner!

Hello there:

I am a bored housewife (or actually a wife who’s husband continually cheats) and have turned to ashley madison for help. I’ve had one successful affair, and am embarking on another.

I’ve used the excuse of “going to the gym” for our encounters. but I could use some more ideas, esp for later activiites, or for overnights! I’ve been very careful not to change any habits nor slow down/increase sex (or try any new tricks) with my husband. So far, I don’t think he suspects anything. Not that it matters, I know he is having an affair or several of his own (he is sooooo stupid whenever his phone rings, it’s just about obvious).

My current, very new affair, is with a businessman from across the country, who travels to my area for work. I cannot wait for our next encounter. But I need advice on how to get out of the house so I can meet him.

I’m lucky in that I have a very good girlfriend who also has affairs, so she could cover for me, and also might have some advice for me.

This has been a great adventure for me, and I’ve enjoyed it. I would recommend AshMad to any wife who is ignored, or wants to have the same fun her husband is having on the side.

Signed – Happy Housewife

Dear Happy Housewife

Thanks for taking the time to write. Here`s a few bits of advice that might keep you from getting caught cheating on your husband.

#1- You’ve already got a girlfriend that cheats and knows you do too? That’s perfect! Using her as your alibi is ideal as she knows what is at stake. Since she’s cheating also, she has much to lose if she’s not quiet about your affairs. Start having “sleep-overs” at her house, or nights out with the girls that involves you staying at her house because you had too much to drink and couldn’t drive home.

#2- Time to start creating an imaginary friend. Perhaps you can use your cheating girlfriend as the person that introduced you to your new friend. Start talking about this friend, arranging times to go out with her and drop her name in to conversations in person and on the phone. Your husband will assume it’s just another friend and no big deal.

#3- Did you use your home computer to check out Affair Tips or send the email to us? If you did, you’ll want to get WinClear right away to prevent your husband from seeing what you are doing online. It’s cheap and withut it, you leave yourself open to getting caught cheating on the computer.

Any or all of those three cheating tips should help you not get caught cheating. In addition, please make sure you read all the rest of our affair tips located through out the site.

- He/she starts telling lies for no reason.
- He/she starts coming home at unusual times and refuses to give any rational explanation.
- He/she suddenly starts exercising or going to the gym.
- He/she buys a whole new wardrobe of fancy and flashy clothes.
- He/she buys a new perfume/cologne.
- He/she starts a new diet.
- He/she suddenly changes his/her driving pattern.
- He/she buys new hot/sexy underwear.
- He/she starts spending more money without giving any explanation.

Another site gives you 46 ways to tell if your partner is cheating. Take a look at this list and see if your husband or wife is cheating!

1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you’ve had a vasectomy.

2) Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you. (They either know about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible wife or girlfriend you are.)

3) Your cheating husband or wife stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.

4) Sets up a new e-mail account and doesn’t tell you about it.

5) He leaves the house in the morning smelling like Irish Spring and returns in the evening smelling like Safeguard.

6) She joins the gym and begins a rigorous workout program.

7) She buys a cell phone and doesn’t let you know.

He sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to his office.

9) The cheating husband carries condoms, and you are on the pill.

10) Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.

11) Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.

12) He becomes “accusatory,” asking if you are being true to him, usually out of guilt.

13) Raises hypothetical questions such as, “Do you think it’s possible to love more than one person at a time?”

14) He buys himself new underwear.

15) He insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.

16) The cheating wife stops wearing her wedding ring.

17) Has a sudden desire to be helpful with the laundry.

18) Has unexplained scratches or bruises on his or her neck or back.

19) Suddenly wants to try new love techniques.

20) He/she fairly suddenly stops having sex with you.

21) He/she suddenly wants more sex, more often.

22) Supposedly works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.

23) Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.

24) You find out by accident he or she took vacation day or personal time off from work – but supposedly worked on those days.

25) Shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.

26) Spouse’s co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.

27) Has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.

28) Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you have gone to bed.

29) He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress’s house and had to eat the dinner you prepared when he got home.

30) Your spouse is away from home, either nights or on trips, more than previously.

31) His/her clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave. You see lipstick on your husband’s shirt.

32) The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off.

33) You find items of intimate apparel or other small gift-type items that you did not give your spouse.

34) Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is “touchy” and easily moved to anger.

35) You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.

36) He/she loses attention in the activities in the home.

37) Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.

38) He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.

39) She uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.

40) She has a “glow” about her.

41) Atypical erratic behavior.

42) He sneaks out of the house.

43) She sleeps with her purse by the bed

44) She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.

45) He tells you can get hold of him at a different telephone number.

46) The telltale signs of a cheating spouse? Having to ask that question in the first place.

]]> http://www.affairtips.com/cheating-thinking-of-having-an-affair-these-are-things-to-avoid/46/feed 3 http://www.affairtips.com/bored-cheating-housewife-affair-tips/45 http://www.affairtips.com/bored-cheating-housewife-affair-tips/45#comments Sat, 15 Mar 2008 16:45:43 +0000 Affair Tips http://www.affairtips.com/bored-cheating-housewife-affair-tips/45 Are you a bored cheating housewife and don’t want to get caught cheating? Maybe you are bored and lonely and are thinking about having an affair? Seems like there are a quite a few of you looking for ways to prevent yourselves from getting caught cheating. We’ve gotten twenty seven emails in the last forty five days from housewives that are cheating or about to..

We figure that there must be website out there and they must be teaching people how to cheat. We did some searches and found a bunch of sites that offer tips for having an affair. Crazy huh?  Here is some of the affair tips we found for bored-cheating-housewives.

For a bored, cheating housewife, there are some different things she’ll need to do in order to prevent her from getting caught having an affair. Here’s a list (in no particular order) of things to do and to remember if you are a housewife looking to have an affair. Think your wife is cheating? Look at the list for tips on how she is having her affair and how to catch her in the act!

• Online personal ads are your best bet for finding a lover. Trying to pick someone up at a bar is just too risky and since you are a housewife, how are you going to convince your husband to let you get dressed up and hit the clubs at night? We recommend using the Ashley Madison Agency or Adult Friend Finder. We’ve done a quick online dating personals review here. Using online personal ads for cheating is cheaper than bars, safer and way more fun to be able to window shop for your secret lover.
• If you are buying anything online or in person related to your affairs, sign up for a new Mastercard and use a fake address or send mail to a P.O. Box.Try to use cash for hotels and the new credit cards for online personals so that no paper trail leads back to you. Even better, get your lover to pay for the hotel so there is no chance your name will be on anything relating to it. All men will happily pay for a hotel to have an affair in. If they don’t, then they are serious about keeping your affair secret.
• Since you are a housewife, you’ll probably be at home most days when you check your online personal ad messages. This is where WinClear will assist you in keeping your affair secret. It enables you to hide your surfing habits and it will cover your tracks when you go to your online personal ad sites.
• Don’t tell your girlfriends. Not any of them, not even your BFF.
• Start doing something during the day that requires you to leave the house for a couple of hours and where you can’t answer your cellphone. Join a scrap-booking club. Join a gym. Volunteer at animal shelter. This will form the basis of your affair alibi.
• If you aren’t that creative or have trouble lying, use the Alibi Network to help create a foolproof affair alibi. This service will help you conceal your affair and take the stress out of trying to keep your stories straight.
• Create a brand new Hotmail address, one that you’ve never had before and that your husband doesn’t know about. Make sure to not have the following turned on “Remember me on this computer”. This will enable others to see your new email address, and will raise suspicions.
• Insist on your lover wearing a condom. Although sex without feels much better, you bringing home a STD will be the end of your marriage and could even kill you or your husband if you contract AIDS or something similar. Affairs are fun, but you don’t want to give yourself a death sentence. Use condoms!
• Most of all, try to not change anything at home, other than your new alibi activity(gym, scrap-booking etc). Keep on doing what you are doing, except know that now you’ll be a whole lot happier inside!

If you are a bored cheating housewife that got caught and want to share your story, send us an email.

If you are a married man who thinks his wife is cheating and need some tips to catch her, send us an email.

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Online dating services are a great tool to use when trying to see if your husband or wife is having an affair. They offer some degree of confidentiality, secrecy and the ability to browse personal ads without anyone else knowing that you are married and thinking that your partner is cheating.

Before you even think about using an online dating site to catch a cheating wife or cheating husband, you’ll want to take a look at a few steps that a cheater will take so they don’t get caught. In addition to having to register to online dating services, many dating sites require credits to send messages, so they’ll need to have a way to make online purchases, without a paper-trail leading you right to their affair.

Here’s how many cheaters cheat online.

1. Set up an online Online PO Box and use it as your home address on everything related to your cheating. Use it for online dating site registrations, hotel registrations, , credit card statements, cell phone bills, etc, so that you won’t get mail at home relating to your affairs.
2. Sign up for a new MasterCard, one that your husband or wife has no idea exists. Use your Mastercard to purchase credits for the online dating site as well as everything else to do with your affair. Hotel rooms, cell phone, gifts, meals. Use the online PO Box as your address when you sign up so all statements will be sent there and not to your home.
3. Buy a new cell phone and plan so you can talk to your lovers without worrying about them having your home, office or “real” cell phone number. ONLY use this number when signing up to online dating sites, hotels, etc,etc.
4. You’ll probably use your home computer(even though we certainly warn AGAINST that) to check your online dating emails and other things relating to your affairs. If you must use your home pc because access to another computer isn’t readily available, hide your online activity and cover your tracks by using WinClear.
5. Sign up to The Ashley Madison Agency or Adult Friend Finder, using the new PO Box as a mailing address, MasterCard to purchase credits and cell phone for contact. Using these steps will seriously decrease your chances of getting caught having an affair.

We suggest using The Ashley Madison Agency as well as Adult Friend Finder to catch them cheating because it works.

Cheating wives or cheating housewives. Say those two things around men and their imagination starts to run wild. From the beginning of recorded time(and probably even back in the caveman days) a cheating wife is many men’s dream.

A cheating wife is an ideal sex partner for married men, because a cheating wife won’t blow your cover. Sure she’ll rock your world in the hotel room, but she won’t call your house in the middle of the night, show up at your work, or confront you in the mall. “No strings attached” is the motto of cheating wives around the world and for good reason.

What are some of the reasons a wife decides to cheat on her husband?

• Neglect. She is ignored sexually at home and feels unloved.
• Abuse. She is physically or emotionally abused by her husband.
• Boredom. Her husband has lost his sex drive, but she hasn’t causing her to go elsewhere
• Self-destruction. She wants out of the marriage, so she cheats and hopes that her husband finds out and leaves her.

Cheating housewives can be found in a few different places including many online dating sites. One of the most popular places that you’ll find a cheating wife dating profile is on The Ashley Madison Agency. Ashley Madison has had a major increase in signups lately as more and more women turn to the agency in order to have an affair.

Another popular website to find a cheating wife is Adult Friend Finder. There are a quite a few sexy profiles of wives that are wanting to have an affair. The photos they post are pretty racy, but you’ll find some hidden gems in the profiles without photos. Most married women won’t post their photos for obvious reasons, so make sure to read the profiles to find clues that they are indeed married and looking for an affair.

Remember than even though a cheating wife is eager to have a sexual encounter, she still has feelings and must be respected. A cheating wife has a lot to lose so make sure you treat her how she needs to be treated, so she’ll keep coming back to you for more!

Have fun and be safe!!